Date & Dish

I knew with my track record this would happen eventually.  I knew I should have been wary with anything or anyone that appeared perfect.  The problem is that I still don’t know what isn’t perfect about Spencer.
I was cautious about Spencer at first, but before I knew it I realized I really liked him.  I […]

I don’t understand how I got here. All I want is someone to tell me that all of this pain and suffering isn’t for nothing.  I wish that I could just snap my fingers and I wouldn’t like KP anymore.  That I wouldn’t overanalyze everything he says.  That I wouldn’t wish that he is going […]

Well, my friends, you can probably tell from the title of this post what I’m about to tell you. Yep…things are over with The Reader. I wish I could explain what happened, but I honestly do not have a clear understanding of what exactly went wrong. I suppose that’s par for the course though.
I know […]

So Data Guy and I went out for a third time exactly one week ago. It was fine — we had a good time and exchanged a sweet, simple hug and kiss goodbye. I have been getting that weird “does he like me?” thing I had with CB a long time ago, and I should […]

KP and I are finally over.  It’s my fault for dragging it out for 3 months.
KP failed to say happy birthday on my birthday a month ago.  To me, that was a huge red flag.  I tried to blow it off, telling myself it wasn’t a big deal.  But it was.  I finally brought it […]

Hey, Student…hope you had a great weekend!
After doing some thinking, I think my decision to stop seeing you really came down to a few things. I am not totally against the idea of ever being in a relationship again. And I wasn’t totally against the idea of ever being in a relationship with you. But […]

So I thought things were left okay with the Student. Then I got this big long e-mail from him, basically asking why I decided I didn’t want to date him anymore. Sheesh. Does it matter? It’s not going to change anything. He asked me what I’m looking for when I’m dating someone, and whether I […]

I met with the Student tonight. It went about as well as it could go, I guess. I hadn’t seen him in nearly two weeks, so there was plenty of time to kind of avoid him, I guess. We met at a café and chatted for a bit, making the obligatory smalltalk until I said, […]

German guy and I hung out tonight. We’ve actually seen each other a few times, and it’s all honestly been wonderful. But tonight he confessed that he and his ex had gotten together “to talk” recently, and he’s “confused.” Apparently, she may want to get back together. I don’t know where he’s at about the […]

I hate dating, I’ve decided.  The guy from the last post, I’ll call him “KP,” and I went out Saturday night and had a great time.  Back at KP’s house we had the ex-girlfriend discussion.  He said he’s been broken up with the chick for almost a year.  I asked if he was over her, and […]