Date & Dish

Don’t you think dating is a vicious cycle? After dusting myself off from the German guy thing, I decided to get back in the dating pool. I’m never going to meet someone great if I don’t put myself out there, right? Unlike Paul, I don’t have much confidence that it would happen for me offline. […]

Get it? Up dates? I know, groan.
I have so much to dish about. I’ve gone from having pretty much nothing going on in my personal life (post-graceful exit with German guy) to having a lot to look forward to.
I’ll give you the scoop very very soon! I’ve started writing a post but will need more […]

It’s been several days since I met up with German guy last week, so I’ve had time to get a little distance from it all. I guess the smoke has cleared. I’ll get into how I’m feeling in a bit, but first I want to let you know how it went last week.
We met at […]

So I’ve set a date with German guy for coffee tomorrow night. I feel pretty good about the decision I’m making. I basically want to say three things:

I really like you and enjoy spending time with you.
Being in this in-between, what-are-we-doing place is not what I want right now.
If at some point you’re in a […]

German guy and I hung out tonight. We’ve actually seen each other a few times, and it’s all honestly been wonderful. But tonight he confessed that he and his ex had gotten together “to talk” recently, and he’s “confused.” Apparently, she may want to get back together. I don’t know where he’s at about the […]

The title of my post is an attempt to bring some humor into my life right now. See, things with German guy have taken an interesting turn.
We met up tonight and had a nice time, as usual. It’s obvious that we have a very real, deep connection that is somewhat mysterious. At one point, he […]

I went into this thing with German guy with the attitude that I would just “go with the flow.” I didn’t want to get all caught up in expectations or “what ifs”…I wanted to just see where things would go and enjoy myself.
So now that I’ve gone with the flow, I’m totally, undeniably smitten. Like, […]

I went out with German guy again last night. We went to a movie and then hung out at his place for a while. I guess the evening went very well…so well that it kinda has me weirded out.
I don’t really understand how I can feel so comfortable and familiar with someone I barely know. […]

Me:
Hi, Class Guy! I hope you’ve had a good week and are enjoying your weekend. Did you have fun with your guests in town?
I’m sorry I wasn’t able to get back to you about getting together today. I had a pretty crazy week, and I’m actually working today.
I’ve really enjoyed our dates and getting to […]

Nine months ago, I met German guy for the first time.
Two nights ago, we had our second date.
I briefly shared our history in an earlier post. And I was pretty anxious about our dinner date all day yesterday. I deliberately started getting ready later than I could have so that I wouldn’t have time to […]