Date & Dish

After a lot of prayer and thought I decided I’m taking a dating sabbatical.  I already feel a liberation, an awakening.

It all started when I started going back to church.  Then after another execrable experience with online dating I took it as a sign.  Then other signs emerged.  California came calling.  Then my music came calling with an even louder knock.  They were all saying, “You need to pay attention to us!”

Going deeper I realized I was making women my Higher Power.  In women I was searching for validation, my purpose, my reason for living.  A lot of men do this.  They see God in women and seek to find themselves there.  Then women resent them for it.  I believe that women are the closest thing to God on this earth.  That is why so many men lose their way.  (Aside: Friday that is what I think is going on with Student guy.)

Yes I’m taking a break.  I’m not actively dating or even pursuing it.  Right now my passion is my music.  Well actually music has always been my passion.  I am dedicated to giving music everything I have.

If a woman comes along that sparks my interest, yes I’m going to ask her about her situation.  I am not going to approach every woman I find attractive.  I’m going to give it time and let her emerge in a natural way, through connections at church and friends.

So if you don’t hear from me for a while, you’ll know what’s up.  I am most likely in the studio working on music or working on my house that I’m getting ready to sell.  I’ve got more than enough to keep me out of trouble.