That’s Just the Way the Cookie Crumbles
Published by Friday 3 years, 11 months ago in DissesGerman guy and I hung out tonight. We’ve actually seen each other a few times, and it’s all honestly been wonderful. But tonight he confessed that he and his ex had gotten together “to talk” recently, and he’s “confused.” Apparently, she may want to get back together. I don’t know where he’s at about the whole situation, but the fact that he’s “confused” about it means it’s not a great place for me.
I am trying to be understanding and kind and patient…I’m trying to treat him the way I would want to be treated. But honestly, part of me really feels like I should kindly tell him to contact me if things change for him in the future. I don’t really want to go down the road of hanging out with him, really falling for him, and then being told that he’s getting back together with his ex, you know?
Life can be a real bitch sometimes.
Life can be a real bitch indeed. Hope it works out for you, Friday.
Ughh.
Well, at least he told you now instead of carrying on.
Boys.
Hang in there and as I commented before to Apricot…..hang in there.
Thanks for the support. I do think I’m just going to make a graceful exit while I can still be graceful about it.
I agree. Where is the fast forward button, people?!?!
Aaaargh! I agree that if he’s “confused” that you don’t need to stick around for that, as painful as it is to let go. Ultimately it will save you the push/pull crap that is bound to ensue.
I was really rooting for you and the German, but he has got to figure out what his priority is first and foremost, without taking you along for the ride.