Date & Dish

I wanted to be strong and make a “graceful exit” like Friday.  I know that baggage can be a huge question mark and that possibly there will never be an answer. I’m not sure if I don’t have enough will power or if I have problems believing that there WILL be another guy. Despite the […]

Get it? Up dates? I know, groan.
I have so much to dish about. I’ve gone from having pretty much nothing going on in my personal life (post-graceful exit with German guy) to having a lot to look forward to.
I’ll give you the scoop very very soon! I’ve started writing a post but will need more […]

Lately I’ve been in a great place.  I haven’t had any dates and honestly I’ve been too busy with my house, church, work, traveling and music to think about women and/or dating.
Today my match.com subscription expired.  It feels wonderful!  I’ve decided that I am not going to use any online dating sites from now on.  […]

I went out with the Engineer on Saturday after much ambiguous communication.  We had started emailing each other last week and had moved on to rather lengthy IM sessions in the evening hours.  The Engineer is originally from Virginia and had recently moved to Atlanta after studying at the Savannah College of Art in historic […]

It’s been several days since I met up with German guy last week, so I’ve had time to get a little distance from it all. I guess the smoke has cleared. I’ll get into how I’m feeling in a bit, but first I want to let you know how it went last week.
We met at […]

So I’ve set a date with German guy for coffee tomorrow night. I feel pretty good about the decision I’m making. I basically want to say three things:

I really like you and enjoy spending time with you.
Being in this in-between, what-are-we-doing place is not what I want right now.
If at some point you’re in a […]

German guy and I hung out tonight. We’ve actually seen each other a few times, and it’s all honestly been wonderful. But tonight he confessed that he and his ex had gotten together “to talk” recently, and he’s “confused.” Apparently, she may want to get back together. I don’t know where he’s at about the […]

I hate dating, I’ve decided.  The guy from the last post, I’ll call him “KP,” and I went out Saturday night and had a great time.  Back at KP’s house we had the ex-girlfriend discussion.  He said he’s been broken up with the chick for almost a year.  I asked if he was over her, and […]